''Starting from the beginning of my memories of MV Rugby Club.My brother Geoff Dean, who sadly passed away on 4th April was a University student working at MV along with Salford University. He started playing rugby and I started working at MV, this was September 1966.
I heard about the Annual C&S Review being put on by the students and ended up signing in with 2 of my friends, at the age of 16 walking across the stage, dressed in a bikini singing Roedean girls (good old rugby song)!! at the social club on Moss Lane in Stretford, and from there life suddenly changed, the good old 60’s
My best friend and I then progressed to going to Kenwood which was a social club ( next link to MV)for all apprentices and teenagers from AEI. This is where myself and best friend both met our future husbands!
Mike started playing rugby and the main link was made, socials at the old Finny bank rugby club married with 2 children I started going more to MV but found it difficult with the children, a lot of members didn’t like children being there.
1977, The club then decided to open the small bar after training onTuesday, Thursday and I offered to do it, it was here where I used to talk a lot to different members about club policies.
1978, the position of club secretary came available and I was asked to do the role! great opportunity to start putting a ‘women's’ point over. I did all the necessary commitments as Club Secretary, drinking pint of mild, reading reports at AGM.
Along with some other women who felt strongly about certain things we formed a women’s committee, never been heard of before. We started making the small lounge child friendly after games so families could all enjoy the club more on Saturday afternoons. We started showing videos etc for the children to watch.
Suddenly children weren’t so bad!
This was around the period of 1978/79. I think the main thing we as women had to accept was that it was a men’s rugby club, traditions were to be upheld, silly rugby songs being sung, drinking game, many old traditions. In true reality it was all good fun, the men needed to be guided and shown what was happening elsewhere at local rugby clubs, for example Altrincham Kersal and Bowden where families and women were already becoming part of the club.
I made some amazing friends at MV, one or two who wished I would just go home but most of all memories.
It is so nice to see how male club to being in family inclusive, the club has progressed over the years, I have far too many stories to tell about my life at MV and association with many members which I still feel exists today.
For me it is lovely to see so many children being introduced and allowed in the ‘inner sanctum’, also suddenly women are now playing there, all age groups. They are even now talking about Rugby tactics etc instead of boys and makeup, how Conrad Guleke will be amazed,the political correctness of ‘goodnight ladies’ such a tradition, not meant with rudeness or sarcasm just light hearted fun !!''